I’m 26 and the husband is 41. We’ve been married for 6 years now, together for 7. It was a relationship where neither of us asked ages I assumed he was around 30 and he thought I was 21 since he asked me out for drinks the second go around.

Anyway, you know how it goes sex is great/ life is great/family is great/we work a lot we’ve grown. The only thing I’m struggling with now is sex.

God I just want to have Sex that lasts more than 5 minutes. It’s like a switch turns off and he is just no longer able to keep it up. My sex drive is insane. I want it almost everyday and I get it once a month maybe. I’ve invested in toys and making sure I can get there but GDI sometimes I want to be able to just have good hot sex!

Sorry this is mostly a vent, I love him but just- I need more and he refuses to go to a specialist to check his hormones and well-being. Just frustrated.