- this girl got pregnant at 21 with one child

- Her boyfriend cheats on her and got arrested multiple times, doesn’t help pay bills and other things (basically a deadbeat dad)

- She still depends on her mother to help her out

- Her mother would say she should of been responsible ( I agree in this case)

- The girl when having sex let her bf cum in her then she pushed it out thinking it would work (I don’t know if it was intentional or not)

- When the sister would bring up the topic about abortions and how they should be legal because a lady should do what she wants (especially when it comes to incest and rape) the mother would tell the child that the parents should have been responsible

- Responsibility for both is a huge part of having sex but not in rape and incest cases the only one responsible would be the rapist or family member that forced the other into it

- I’ve overheard her on the phone telling her child she could get an abortion and nobody would ever know (basically trying to talk the child out of giving birth)

- The mother would also tell the child to get her stuff together before child services comes to take away her child

- The mother is almost 70 years old and the daughter is about 26

It seems like the mother is just stressed out about her child giving birth/getting pregnant. When the mother told me about the child getting pregnant my first thought was that the child should be removed from their care because looking at the girls life, her boyfriend, and the girls upbringing it would really damage the child. It’s just annoying because the mother is saying she doesn’t agree with abortions or her child giving birth but in this situation she’s telling the child to get one.