Husband told me he doesn’t want a baby with me

Currently we are in the middle of our IVF cycle. I have my FET scheduled on December 23rd.

My husband and I got into an argument last night, at the end of the fight he told me he didn’t want to have a baby with me.

I’m so fucking broken right now, and I don’t know what to do. We have been together 10 years, we have a 9 year old son. We’ve been trying to get pregnant for 5 years.

We’ve had two MC’s 5 years ago, and we’ve been going through fertility treatments for the past 3 years.

Our argument was over sex. He says I don’t give it to him enough and I don’t put forth the effort to try and make him feel loved. I expressed the same concerns to him and told him I don’t care nor want to have sex if I’m not feeling emotionally supported.

Yes our sex life is limited, shit IVF has unfortunately made me feel like shit. But to really want to end this cycle over sex?

I know this “processes” is stressful and has been emotionally taxing on us. But to tell me he doesn’t want to have another baby with me is equivalent of wanting to have a divorce.

Sorry for the rant, but I’m just broken and needed an outlet.