Weed causing issues in our relationship... AGAIN.
I have no issues with people smoking weed, my mother and father smoke it, all of my ex's smoke it... My friends. I on the other hand don't. I have dabbled in my life, so I can't say that I hate it.
But I have a 2 year old, my ex and I just got back together. Yeah when he gets baked and doesn't want to do anything and just sit on the couch annoys me a little.
The things that REALLY get to me is how fucking irritable he becomes when he runs out, literally almost instantly as soon as he runs out of weed he fucking mopes around and gets angry at everything. It also costs SO much fucking money. A 50 only lasts him a day. He already owes me $100 and that's for the last 2 days, now he's asking me if he can get another Quarter 🙄 (which costs $100+. So now he's shitty at ME because I won't let hi borrow more money to get more weed? He says he's going to pay me back, he will but that's the not the point. It's just such a waste of money. For what? So he can get high. For what reason? Because he's bored or he wants to "relax" even though he's done nothing to be relaxing from? It's fucking ridiculous. You don't need to be high 24/7. We're planning on moving back in together and trying for another baby at the end of 2021, and he thinks we can afford to spend $100 every couple of days for him to get high when It has no benefits for family... Weed isn't that fucking good. Seriously. I understand people that have health issues, and smoke it once in a while, but all day everyday and the second you run out everyone else cops your shitty fucking moods, THAT is when it's a problem.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.