I think I might have dodged a bullet

Two years ago when I was in college, I met this guy in one of my classes. It was obvious he liked me, and I liked him too. He flirted with me every single class and after class as well. I decided not to pursue him bc I found out he was 28 and I was 21. I thought that was too huge of a age difference, but then I started regretting not seeing what could have happened.

I took a break from a dating app and recently decided to go back to it bc why not? I found him as I was swiping and what stuck out to me was that he put his age as 25 when he should be 30. His bio is also very... idk what word to use. In his bio he says he is dominant and wants a submissive girl, and goes into explicit detail as to what he will do to you in bed. Basically he wants to be a master.

I’m kind of shock at one point in my life I actually liked him bc that bio he wrote is a total turn off. This isn’t the first time I’ve stumbled upon him while swiping. Each time I do, his bio gets more and more sexual. I also wonder why he says he’s 25 when he’s not. Is it bc women his age don’t want to date him? Is he just a bigger weirdo than I thought he was? Does he just want a younger girl to take advantage of? Was that why he liked me when I was 21? I think I definitely dodged a bullet, and I’m thankful I listened to my gut two years ago.

UPDATE

Someone mention it’s common for dating apps to be sexual. Obviously I know that. Some girls may like the type of stuff he wrote, like “dragging you across the floor by your hair”. The point of this post was I didn’t know a guy I used to like as well as I thought I did. And the lying about his age thing is definitely like someone else said a “red flag”. I see it like this. If he’s lying about something so simple like his age, what else could he be lying about? 🤔