I don’t like being eaten out...partner wants me to like it

I’ve never liked it. Some might say “oh you’ve never had it done right, or wrong guy, etc.” however, it’s a matter of personal preference for me. I enjoy more of a ‘pressure’ sensation down there rather then a wet, slimy tongue or mouth moving around down there. I can’t relax during it at all.

I’ve said to my partner that I honestly could live the rest of my life without it and be fine but he is dead set on making me like it. How can I get it across to him that I really just prefer the D over being eaten out?