Extra mouths to feed

This holiday season sucks because i have extra mouths to feed. I hate ot because my boyfriend and i are both on unemployment because of covid, and his brother and sister who live in the same apartment complex as us butts into our place for dinner. I want to spend time with them, but honestly its a struggle right now. I just wish thanksgiving and christmas dinner was just my boyfriend and i, our 24 month old and 5 month old. It sounds shitty but again, thats our reality as of now. His brother and sister were like so what are we having for christmas dinner? And its annoying because i make all ghe food, all the money to feed the extra mouths come out of my pocket and i cant afford it!! It would be different if they helped with buying the groceries to make the big dinner they want! I sound so annoying but again, my boyfriend and i are the ones currently unemployed and they have jobs. We are unemployed with kids to feed, and they only have to feed themselves. Im at the grocery store buying food to make for christmas and i just want to cry. We dont qualify for food stamps because november we went over the household income for 4 people by a few bucks. I hate everything.