So I have a relative, while she isn't mean. She isn't very polite either. A few interactions we've had recently. Its just rubbed me the wrong way. Like if I say something she makes it seem like I am dumb for evening mentioning it. But not necessarily in an aggressive manner.

Its pretty different from how I interact. I try to spare people's feelings unless they are being complete assholes to me.

Honestly after this last interaction with her I think I am just gonna distance myself a bit. I just don't want to deal with her attitude frankly.

Just curious if other people pull away too (not completely cut off. It's not that bad)