Tomorrow will be interesting

We’re telling my partners mother tomorrow that we’re pregnant and I really don’t know how she’ll take it

She was angry about my last pregnancy (ectopic) and only found out about it the day before I had surgery because I wanted advice (she’s a nurse) and boy did we cop it. “Why wasn’t she on the pill” “a baby will ruin your life” and even ignored my messages to her and we haven’t spoken since, this was in September. He’s her favourite, she’s always tried to control him the most in his life because she really wants him to pursue music because that’s what she wants him to do, even though his wants have changed since then, he’s been too scared to tell her in fear of disappointing her

I have no idea how she’s going to react, she won’t expect this at all, especially given me having one tube now, I’m low key terrified but my partner and I are on the same page, that if she’s rude and wants to push us away, that’s her loss and doesn’t get anything to do with her grandchild

I’m still angry about how she reacted last time and the things she said, she never apologised to me, she told my partner to apologise to me for her, like honey no, it doesn’t work that way

Hopefully it’s better than last time