Pissed

Normally me and my man have a good sex life, now we’re about 6 months pregnant. I don’t feel sexy and it’s gone down hill to maybe 1-2 x a week. Normally if he’s in the mood he’ll rub all over me or do something to get me in the mood. He’d always wait for me to have sex with him. So he’d never need to take care of his own business. Lately and it’s not often he’d say things like basically if I don’t have sex with him he’ll just jerk off to porn and the girl looks like Elsa from frozen because I guess there’s a girl that looks like her or they based her off the porn stars look. Which half of that I felt like he was just saying that and the other part I felt like it was a threat. He hasn’t been cuddling me like he used to either because he says I’m too hot. Which he doesn’t even do it for even a minute. But he’ll cuddle his little dog for hours every day. So I doze off for a little bit and wake up to a shaking motion and he’s jerking off and holding his phone! Like right next to me! I was upset and said you know I’m right here! Like why do you feel like you have to do all that when I’m right here and you’ve woken me up for sex before?! He said he didn’t want to disturb me because I was asleep. Oh but jerking off is not going to wake me? I’m super upset because I feel like I’m not attractive enough or something. He doesn’t feel like it’s a problem but this isn’t a regular thing. Like this is a first time thing. He didn’t even touch me at all. Am I being over dramatic or am I right?