Anger issue/temper

My husband and I had sex Christmas night. We did again later that night, but my inner lip was swollen and hurt for some reason so I didn’t want him to touch me. So I started to blow him and he’s pretty drunk and he said it wasn’t gonna make him cum so I stopped and am like what now? 🤷🏻‍♀️ I didn’t want to have sex because it hurt. He wasn’t doing anything or saying anything so I told him I was gonna go to bed. He apparently fell asleep and forgot or something and he woke up mad that I was gone and he punched a hole in the wall 🤦🏻‍♀️ I went downstairs to where he was and talked to him and he was then mad that he punched a hole in the wall and I’m like what do you want from me? Like what can I do? There’s nothing I can do, so I’m going to bed. So he came up to bed and we just laid there in tense silence until he got mad again, I guess, because he left and was slamming shit around downstairs and I was all freaked out and paranoid. He apologized the next morning. I didn’t really want to talk about it, so I didn’t tell him it scared me but now I think I should.

Last year at New Year’s eve, I was pregnant and super tired. I didn’t want to stay up til midnight, but he wanted me to so I did. Then midnight hit and I went to sleep. He was mad that I went to sleep, so he walked to a bar near our house. On his way, he flipped over our picnic table because he was angry.

He seems to get angry over stupid things like this from time to time and it makes me uncomfortable. I know it’s not normal but idk what to do about it. How big a problem is this/what should I do or say to him?