I am currently going through a miscarriage. This is my first pregnancy. I had my first ultrasound down at 5 weeks & 6 days. Everything was fine and measuring up where it should be just no heartbeat. They reassure me it was just too early and come back for a second ultrasound. During the first ultrasound, They saw the yoke sac and fetal pole. When I Had my second ultrasound 2 weeks later, they informed me I was measuring 6 weeks & 6 days when I was suppose to measure 7 weeks & 4 days they also Saw a yoke sac but no fetal pole. (Both of these ultrasounds were done at the free clinic). Then I Got an appointment with an actual OB and they informed me I was measuring 6 weeks & 2 days. They saw the yoke, gestural, & amniotic sac but no baby, no heartbeat, & no fetal pole. (I was suppose to be 8 weeks & 3 days then). Not to mention they discovered with my first ultrasound a small subchorionic hematoma & said it should clear up & to not worry. It’s progressively got worse with each ultrasound & I asked both doctors if I needed to be on light duty or take any precautions one said no the other said yes but it was too late. My last ultrasound it was huge and surrounding the gestural sac. But I was not bleeding at all, not at any point what so ever just some cramping.

I continued to experience pregnancy symptoms through all of this and even had some bloating and it made it seem like I was already showing. I also started prenatal vitamins as soon as I found out I was pregnant and changed my whole diet (mainly just cutting back on caffeine because I’m a big caffeine drinker)

During my appointment with the OB, The doctor told me the pregnancy was not viable & gave me options on what to do. I decided to have them insert misoprostol. They also gave me pain medication and nausea medication to help manage my discomfort (I am severe amount of pain and so sick to my stomach). They did blood work see my blood type & if I had any stds, even though they told me they were going to check to see if the complications had anything to do with my genetics & they never checked my hcg levels either.

Not to mention the free clinic let me have my fiancé at my first appointment and my sister with my at my second. But the ob wouldn’t let me have anyone at either one of my appointments with them, so I was all alone & devastated with this news & had to handle it all on my own & that broke me even more. 🥺💔

I’m beyond heart broken & confused & I don’t know if I should have waited longer or not to see if something would have changed. All I ever wanted was to be a mother & it’s not fair this happen. I was suppose to be 8 weeks & 4 days today. 😭😭😭