If you knew a man was married and going through issues, would you still talk to him?

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My (soon to be ex) husband messaged a girl on Facebook and started talking. I saw some messages so she definitely knew about me and our situation. She said “I tried to find a picture of her (meaning me) when we first started talking. But couldn’t find one so I gave up cause I don’t care that much”. Now I’m not blaming the girl but It just blows my mind that some women will still engage with a man knowing all of that. If a man started talking to me i would not continue talking to him if i knew he was married and going through issues. We are getting divorced for a ton of reasons but It seems like he needed to have someone else lined up before truly ending It. Just curious on everyone’s opinion, thanks!!!

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Having issues and going through a divorce are two very different things.
If you two were just hitting a rough patch, its not okay for him to be relying on someone at all. 
But you two aren't a couple anymore, you're getting a divorce. You're broken up. He can talk to whoever he wants.

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If u mean like interested in dating then no. If you mean like having conversations.... i sometimes will but to advise, encourage, and instruct the man to make amends with their partner.

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F that s! Marriages go thro rough patches its a fact. But no marriage would last if one or the other started talking to someone.... I would never come between a husband and wife. Mf start talking to me and i found out he was married I'd tell him you should talk like this to her.... But in away she saved you from a child in a mans body. You deserve someone whos gonna talk things out and figure out a way to make things work, like a real man! I'm sorry you're going through a divorce. They suck. But don't think something is wrong with you. Find the positive in this negitive situation! Good luck hon!

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I personally wouldn't. But are you guys going through a divorce? Because if the divorce is already underway you can't be to mad. But if yall are just having issues then yeah thats not ok

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It’s interesting to me that the poll results show 85% saying no right now. But I think some people may not be completely honest with themselves. When given a hypothetical scenario, it’s easy for people to say no. But when it comes down to it, people can justify anything in their minds. 
I am only saying this because I had a partner that talked to SEVERAL other women. They all knew about me and they all did it anyway. But there’s no way they would say yes if asked this question. 🙄

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There’s a big difference between talking & flirting / messaging. I talk to married men all the time & vice versa my husband talks to married women. Whether a neighbor or co-worker. But there is NO flirting or texting or calling or messaging. Period.

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Absolutely not.

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You’re either having issues and trying to work through it or having a divorce. If you’ve already decided to end the relationship then who he does or doesn’t talk to wouldn’t be any of your business

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Yeah, she’ll be next... folks always think the grass will be greener for them. He may be the cause of your infertility issues honestly, I wouldn’t be surprised if you moved on and got pregnant naturally. After I had my oldest I didn’t want anymore kids with my ex husband. Years later I thought he changed and was trying for a baby and couldn’t get pregnant again. I ended up leaving him because he had PTSD and was a drinker & the icing on the cake was when he got some clown pregnant. I left him & I’m with the love of my life, we miscarried then had a son and now expecting another son in March.

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I would not talk or do anything with a man until his divorce is finalized. 
He can live on his own, be separated from his wife but until he has those divorce papers signed and it is finished with all that I would not even entertain that thought. 
But that is just me.

If you knew a man was married and going through issues, would you still talk to him?

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