so say that your boyfriend/husband’s moms boyfriend photoshopped his dick on some of your pictures creating sexual/pornographic pictures....would you be okie with that? would you also keep your kids away from that man? and if the mother-in-law has done nothing about it other than make him feel bad, would you also keep her away from your kids as well?

My husband’s mother has lost her ever loving mind. Back in May (memorial day weekend) 2020 my husband (fiancé at the time) found these inappropriate very disgusting photos on her boyfriend’s computer. She showed them to me and seemed to be genuinely upset. My husband and I told her she could move in with us so she had a place to stay. She denied the offer. Since then she is STILL living with him and still calling him her boyfriend and in a relationship with him. I’m 8 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby and we, mainly me, have noticed that shes doing nothing about moving out or finding another place to live or nothing. Well I’ve told her that if she’s gonna watch my 2 GIRLS (ages 4 and 2) they are never allowed at his house. There’s been a few times where she had to take them over there due to an “emergency” and I’ve let it slide. But now that I’ve made talk about her basically choosing between her grandkids or this boyfriend she now all of a sudden starts understanding doing what he did. She kinda puts the blame on me.

“Im not saying what he did was right but you are young, pretty, and flaunt what you got so I can understand why he would fantasize." (direct quote)”

Like I get it the dude has a fantasy. But the fact that you went snooping found the photos and show and send them to me and seeing how I feel about it....knowing that he’s been creeper status for years towards me and that showing me these photos grossed me out...I feel like she should have done something. Am I in the wrong? Am I overreacting? Like if you were in a relationship with a guy and he makes photos about your sons gf would you be okie with that? I don’t feel comfortable with that. And her comment didn’t help. If he did it to me I’m afraid that he might do it to my girls when they grow into their bodies. And to make something clear I don’t flaunt my body. I try and hide it as best as I can especially around him. He makes me feel uncomfortable and she knows that. I feel like it’s not okie. What do y’all think? I hope I worded everything right...I don’t want to take the girls from her but I just can’t stand to be around him anymore...