Loosing breast from weight loss

I know these are some first world problems but i guess with society pressure of having a tiny waist big boobs and butt gets to us all right ? I've been on my weight loss journey for a few years but this last year i keep getting flatter and flatter in my chest and bum . I'm doing work outs for both but it just isn't working the way i see it working for others . Sometimes i just google surgeries over and over comparing myself to these surgery made woman that i can't possibly compete with well at least not have money for realistic goals and surgery . I didn't even realize how much confidence i had tied to my breast, butt and waist until my body started changing . I feel more insecure being intimate with my husband than i did being a more curvy woman I'm going on 29 hearing all my elders tell me how great they felt in their 30s ... but like how doe ? Lol any encouragement or kind advice even work out tips or diet tips I'm open to it all I just want to feel sexy in my own skin cause I'm killing it in personality lol