Interested to hear your stories on feeling connected with baby.

I am almost 21 weeks pregnant. I’ve felt happy and in love with the baby but not necessarily connected. Well, about three days ago she started kicking way more definitely and has been kicking up a storm the last few days, plus today I had my anatomy scan. After these two things I’m just feeling really in love/attached/connected. Did you take a while to feel connected like I did, or longer, or what did that look like for you during you journey? I think this topic is not discussed enough and I would love to hear your story.