Disrespectful baby’s dad

Ok so recently the dad of my child advised me he has a girlfriend ( which I don’t care about by the way I’m GLAD) but he proceeded to tell me f my baby and said if she’s his he still doesn’t want anything to do with the little “B word” but turned around and was writing my sister making it seem like I’m the problem and I’m keeping my child from him .....

Am I wrong for not wanting him in my child’s life PERIOD I feel like I couldn’t even trust him with her after what he said. Am I wrong?