Npd husband doesn't like me 😪

So my husband doesn't like me. I'm not his type, never was. I make a great wife, and he does love some of my characterer. He is severe npd (I realized a little too late). Long story short, I used to have a social circle, profile photos, vacation photos, pictures of events etc, on my social media. He deleted all my social media. Last year I was allowed to open a new account on facebook, since I needed it for work and only have less then 50 friends (relatives, co-workers and clients). I had 0 photos posted, not even a profile picture. I had the avatar photo that comes with making a facebook account.

So just before the pandemic, we went to a wedding. They had a professional photographer that took pictures of guests and the bride and groom. I had nice natural makeup on (went to get it done). When we got the pictures I loved the way I looked. So I cropped one of the photos and uploaded a profile picture.

He just saw it and said... why did you put this photo of you? With a disguist/judgemental look on his face. He's only ever liked one picture of me (heavy make-up don't even look like myself). He asked why don't I change it to that?

Like... I used to blame myself for everything. I am working on my self confidence and self love. I know he is not going to change, but I am changing for the better. I am not longer affected by him. I know he is severely ill in his mind, and it's not my fault, and it's not my job to help him work on a problem he doesn't even see. I have no idea how I'm ever getting out, but I know God will be here for me and I will help me get out. For now, I can say that I see him for who he truly is. A narcissist.