My baby is 4 weeks old . My husband keeps telling me that I shouldn’t rock her to sleep because it spoils her. When I don’t she lays in her bassinet and cries. I don’t feel like I am spoiling her I am her mom and I am soothing her. Yesterday while feeding her I had my phone in one hand catching up on emails and the bottle in the other and he complained “why can’t you put your phone down and feed her”? I explained to him I am feeding her and I have emails to catch up on. He nagged and said I need to be more attentive. I am getting really sick of this stuff, he makes me feel like I am horrible mom and how I parent is terrible I don’t know what to do ? I just had a c section and I am recovering and doing the best I can do. He said he feels like I am a little careless with her just cause I don’t do things his way.