Am I overreacting ?

I posted yesterday about having a 7 week old and parenting 24/7. My husband works hard and provides while i care for our little one. No help with fam because of Covid and in losingit.

After I tried to put baby down husband was working on assembling furniture for our home. Baby kept waking up...we have a small home...so I let it be. Finally at 6pm I tried again and husband decided to assemble more furniture. I got upset because I’m SO tired and I tried for hours putting baby down. He assembled furniture anyway and baby woke up. I lost it 😢I called a friend even though in trying to be safe and she said she’d come over to hold baby. I told hubby and we argued a little about him waking up the baby and I’m honestly so cranky so everything ticks me off. He left without telling me. I found out from my friend who said his car wasn’t in our garage. He never leaves without saying bye and I clearly needed support! I texted him if he’s home and he said

No, I was on a work call and wanted to give you some space. Want me to pick something up @ grocery store?

He is very diplomatic so I know he is the one who needed space. That must be nice. I’d like to drive around too with no baby.

I am so upset he left without even saying bye in the middle of my meltdown.