Opinions??

My sister in law adopted a baby girl maybe a couple weeks before I had my baby girl. She got the baby like two days after I gave birth. The babies are about 2 months apart. She has a verrryyyy veryyyyy different parenting style than me and I feel bad but I just have this feeling that she and the baby will end up being not so good of an influence on my child. Everyone keeps saying they’re going to grow up like sisters but I don’t want that. My husband says that as long as we teach our baby how we want her to be no one can influence her but I strongly disagree with that. I also just don’t want anyone comparing the babies and making either one feel bad. My sister in law tends to be the jealous type and can sometimes make mean girl comments. I already feel like our parenting is being compared and they make me feel like everything is a competition. I don’t want my baby to have to grow up in that environment. I feel bad because my husband is close with his sister but I don’t really want her and her baby to be close to my baby. They have a very small family so it’s a bit hard to avoid a lot of contact.