BD sucks 🙄

So my best friend’s baby daddy has me soooooo mad and i need to bitch, but since I can’t talk to other people about her life, I’m turning to all of you. Let’s start off by saying, they were together for 5 years & were planning a wedding when she got pregnant. Covid cancelled their wedding. He was excited at first, and then got weirdly distant, and then he moved out because he “needed space”, and when she was in her 3rd trimester, he wanted to come home. She let him and they worked for months on what his issues were. (His issues were he wanted to go out and party every weekend and she didn’t want him to go all the time because she was home alone all the time). So really this turned into him partying every weekend. I can’t tell you how many times she cried wondering why he would rather spend all his free time with his friends and none of it with her. (He works long hours during the week, so weekends are their only time to spend time together)

Turns out he met someone at one of the parties and had been seeing her the entire time he lived back home. She found out he had been cheating a couple days before she was induced. She still let him come to the hospital, but she moved out after she left & is staying with her grandma. He moved into the house that they picked out together, and throws parties every weekend. Her baby is almost two months old and he’s seen her 3 times total.

He has the NERVE to claim she’s keeping the baby from him when he hasn’t even asked to see her. He asked 3 times and she said yes every time. But he only wanted to visit her or take her for a couple hours. He hasn’t kept her over night (which honestly I would be nervous of that too no matter the relationship with the BD cause she’s still so young but 🤷🏻‍♀️). I just want to call him out when he posts negative shit about her, but she doesn’t want to create anymore tension between them so I gotta respect that 🙄