Question

So I wanted to know if this is normal or a little excessive because I’m not a huge fan of my mil (at times I’ve thought ‘well shit is he my husband or yours’) & don’t know if that is making me feel some type of way.

My husband and his mom FaceTime like 4 or 5 times a day. Is that a normal amount? Like it feels like every time we settle down and try to spend some time together as a family when my husband and I are both off of work (I have 2 under 2) either she calls him or he calls her and I just sit there like really? I’m tired and just want to relax with my family and here he is ignoring me and narrating to his mom every single thing my kids are doing. I understand like once or twice to see the kids bc of the pandemic, but it just feels like she’s always “here” so to speak.

ETA - so I looked in his call log real quick (I wanted to make sure I wasn’t exaggerating) and it’s 2-3x during the week in the 4.5 hours between when he gets home from work and when my oldest goes to bed and 3-5x on the weekends when he’s home all day. That’s still bad isn’t it? 😬 like his mom would call him often before kids, but the FaceTime thing didn’t start until my oldest was born almost 2 years ago.