Help!!!??

Is this normal, whenever I spread my legs open with no pants or even just underwear on I always have the urge to pee even if I just went but ofc I can’t just pee everywhere, I’m tried Keagle’s they didn’t help. I’m mainly afraid when I get a significant other that I’ll just pee when they go down on me, if I’m masturbating I don’t mind peeing on myself but don’t enjoy it so does anyone have tips on how I can’t lower or stop the urge to pee when I open my legs