Hi ladies! Okay I don’t know if I am being overdramatic and I need advice,

Yesterday my husband told me that

“ you are so unacceptable to me “

those words cut my heart and open new bounds. He was at the kitchen helping me with breakfast and he was gonna put in the trash a box of new strawberries, I told him that he only had to get rid of the two strawberries that were getting bad, but not the whole box. Obviously I had an actitud because He knew that me cleaning the whole thing would make me be late for work... He snapped and that’s when he told me those words. He knows how about I feel about unkind words, they remind me of my childhood. My mom was extremely abusive not only physically, mentally but even worse her words are still in my heart. I constantly have nightmares with flashbacks of her.

Right after I told him that he realized and tried to rephrase it using the same words in a different manner. I’ve been really hurt.

Please help.