10 DPO BFN

Why is it so hard!?

I’m 31 turning 32 very soon. I feel like I’m running out of time and regret postponing this late. I started ttc when I turned 31 it’s been 10 months and nothing :(

Please anyone tell me if you’ve any tips or anything to help. Trying for our first child since 10 months and got a BFN today at 10 dpo.