What would you do if your sister (yes, blood) charged at you with a huge designer lamp , & put her hands on you while your pregnant ?

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So basically .... I got caught in the middle of a crossfire.. my mom & stepdad were arguing & slamming things... slamming everything. So I got up asked my stepdad & sister what’s wrong w mom.. nobody looked at me or said anything. I went back to the room I was in & text my mom checking up on her.. she said what happened & said she was leaving (idk where she was going) but I heard them start back arguing & screaming & slamming shit & my mom was in the car pressing on the gas. So my 10 yo brother came in the room & said “kam, they’re scaring..” & walked out as if he were about to cry.. I got up to check on him & before I could even get my words out to ask him if he wanted to just come lay in the bed w me, my stepdad started going OFF on me. & I mean cussing me out something crucial y’all.. so disrespectfully, I kept asking him why he was talking to me like that & he kept saying that I went inside my brothers room & woke them up & was trying to get them to leave with me.. (I wasn’t going anywhere tho 😕) my brothers kept telling him “no she didn’t, we weren’t even sleep cause y’all keep yelling & slamming everything” so then my sister jumped in & started going off as well.. & by that time .. I’m confused as hell. & I’m leaving out the door. I call my other sister to tell her what’s going on & I hear my sister running to me I turn around she’s got this big lamp & soon as she gets up to me. My stepdad literally holds my arms to my sides so I cant move.. letting my sister do all that she could to me. I kept calling my mom she wouldn’t answer. Then she finally did & I told her what she did & she said “idc, you stole her phone” (they kept saying I stole my sister phone 😂 I won’t pick up .25 cents that’s not mine!!!!) I let police search my car & all I didn’t Have her phone, so my mom turns my phone off now I’m out of a phone.. they want me to drop charges so my sister don’t go to jail.. my aunt keeps telling me “it’s the right thing to do by God” but what if something would have happened to my baby? I know this is long but what would y’all do?

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I’d drop the whole family. Nobody needs that kind of mess in their lives. I personally believe blood doesn’t matter, how people treat you does. Don’t drop those charges.

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I’m sorry but I’d press charges on my stepdad too TF.
If it were my sister not only would I press charges and keep them bitches I would have probably tried to off her with that same lamp after I kicked my stepdad in the dick.

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Charge your sister and step dad. What the actual fuck. They are all garbage people, behaving that way at all let alone with children in the house?
I’d also be pressing to get the younger kid out of that shit show. He doesn’t deserve to be exposed to that volatile, crazy bullshit.
After pressing charges and doing what ever I can to give them a big middle finger for being garbage people. I’d never speak to any of them again. 
Blood means nothing and the using god as a reason to drop charges? That’s so dumb I can’t even with your aunt. 
Press charges, Drop the lot, and love a happier life. Hugs ♥️

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Press charges, drop your family until they can learn the meaning of the word...and get your own phone!

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I honestly think you are right to press charges.. the reasons some families are so toxic is because they do this type of stuff to each other but “that’s your family you shouldnt press charges” no that’s my family so I shouldn’t have been held down and beat with a lamp while pregnant.. this is coming from someone whose family has always gotten in crazy fights and sometimes I instigated and sometimes a sibling went to far and I really should have called the police but never did.. 🤷‍♀️  like my adult brother (probably 30 at the time.. I was 14) literally picked me up by my throat body slammed me started punching me in the face and when I finally got up and ran away from him he was like “oh yeah now you are gonna call the police on me and send me back to prison” so then I was like no I wouldn’t do that and “chucked my phone at him” he acted all nice gave me an ice pack wound up kidnapping me and my sister driving us around.. saying he would sell us on the street (sexually) pretended to have a heart attack jumped a curb so I had to grab the wheel.. finally my sister jumped out of the moving vehicle and ran inside a building and they wouldn’t let him get her back so then we went into like “hiding” at one of his friends house I think super late that night he finally took me home and I remember the next day I was just so sore.. I should have called the police and pressed charges.. he wasn’t sorry he is never sorry when he does stuff like that but we were really close before that and that was the first/last time he put his hands on me like that (obviously he would whoop me when I was at an understandable age) but he would always still hit my sister and stuff and she or my mom would call the cops or neighbors etc 🤷‍♀️ but my point is he never learned his lesson and he belongs in jail if he wants to beat women 🙃 family or not and when I got older I realized that but back then I was just brainwashed but after that day I did just get my distance from him like we were super close before that but now I can hardly stand him

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I have a different take on this because I was a domestic abuse program director and counselor for 12 years. It sounds like you all grew up with a lot of violence and abuse. We often see a lot of children of abuse (including young adults) siding with the abuser and even participating as a coping mechanism and means of survival in that type of environment. If yall were abused, she may have learned this as a way of winning him over and avoiding his wrath. Is it okay?  Absolutely not. But I would press charges against him, not her, and then  stay away from all of them. Enough! I'm so sorry for what you're going through, no one deserves to live like this.

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Press charges and cut them out your life

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Beat her ass?

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Press charges and call it quits on the lot of them. The main thing you need to ask is if that is a place you want your baby to be in. Sounds very unsafe for you both.

What would you do if your sister (yes, blood) charged at you with a huge designer lamp , & put her hands on you while your pregnant ?

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