My best friend and I have totally different parenting styles. My whole world is by daughter but my world doesn’t revolve around her at all times. For instance we go on date nights, I hire sitters when I need a break, we sleep in separate rooms, end of the day - I can separate from My kid.

My friend on the other hand, her and her husband can’t leave their 15mo olds side. When she was born, they Both took different jobs to work from home. All Sleep together bed time and naps, they never leave the house for ANYTHING!

I never agree with them so I keep my mouth shut. But today. She tells me she thinks they all have strep.

My reply y’all have to go to the doctors.

“Their response we are taking the baby”

I asked what about them and they said the baby is the priority. We don’t want to leave her to go to the doctors. We don’t want to take turns going so we’re probably not going to go. they would rather be sick then leave their baby for an hr or so!!!!!

Guess I’m looking for advice to accept my friend and their choices that make absolutely no sense to me. Some days I really don’t even want to talk to her cause we’re just so different but she texts me everyday and we were bffs prior to kids.

Ps: I know she doesn’t agree with my parenting styles either. She has tried to make me bad for going on girl nights, getting a massage etc. basically saying your a SAHM you shouldn’t be doing that