I'm quite adventurous and enjoy the thought of people watching me being fucked, I love anal and giving and recieving plenty of foreplay before sex.

My partner on the other hand... he likes his dick to go straight in, no messing about. He doesn't like giving oral and he won't do anal again because he said it hurts his dick. I've even brought us both sex toys and he has no interest. I've asked him to talk dirty to me during sex and even that was dissapointing.

I've respected his choices regarding sex but I'm feeling extremely frustrated, bored and unsatisfied.

I've spoken to him about this a few times, he doesn't say much and nothing changes.

What can I do..?