Help!

About mid November I got a wax done then a few days later I saw this guy. He spit on me and ate my 🍑 out. I’m still a virgin though. He said he didn’t have anything which I trusted him on. A few days later I got what I thought was thrush. I saw my doctor and she ran tests and she said everything was fine. Nothing to worry about. I saw another doctor for a second opinion and they said there was nothing wrong with me. They said it was folliculitis. I got more tests done and they said it’s nothing. They said it’s not herpes (thank God) either. It’s now February and I’m still experiencing the same irritation on my outer labia. At first it was the left side now it’s both sides. It’s like a painful but not quite and irritating feeling. When I’m on my period I can’t feel it but 3 days after it starts all over again. I’m about a week away from my next period and now my labia are red and swollen and so irritating! The bottom of my thighs like under the butt fold is somewhat painful too. No bumps no blisters no sores. Nothing. Just irritation. Is it my hair growing back? I’m still very worried cause I was scared that what if I’m a victim of medical racism (I’m black and we all know things look different on white skin compared to black skin).

Am I imagining things?? Please help 🤧

Edit (May 1st 2021) 6 months later. I’m still in pain. Doctors don’t know what it is. I’ve been put on two different nerve pain meds and they didn’t work. Help!!