so i had my baby shower today and everybody started asking how long they have to wait to see her after i have her (due march 25th) and i told them, maybe a month or 2 and EVERYBODY started yelling at me asking “why so long” like i have to be careful and my baby health comes first, i dont want her to get this virus because her immune system isn’t as strong as ours is.. and everybody started sayin “well that’s why you breastfeed”.. my grandparents had it and they said they barely had an appetite, (which i know the symptoms are different for different people) but if i dont have an appetite and feel weak, how am i going to breastfeed? should i feel bad because im making them wait to meet her? i feel like they are trying to make me feel that way.