Pelvic pain

Sandi • Boy mom x3 💙💛

I just need to rant 😞 and maybe get some advice. I’ve been experiencing pelvic pain so bad that it’s painful to walk or stand. I’ll be 20 weeks tomorrrow. The pain kinda feels like cramping today and it’s so bad but as soon as i sit, it goes away. As soon as I stand, the first step I take is excruciating. I had this with my last baby but I don’t recall it being this bad or happening this early. It mostly happened when I was on my feet all day. I wear my pelvic support belt and it is no help to me. I have two boys already that constantly need something from me and it’s so hard for me. I’m pregnant with my third and he likely will have Down syndrome. That’s besides the point really, but I’m scared to have to be put on bed rest especially now when I’m going through so much with this pregnancy as it is. I rely on my daily tasks. I get so depressed if I am in one spot for too long. I’m also trying to break some of my 4 year old’s bad habits aka the tablet and I’m constantly being told that he doesn’t like me bc of it, I know he doesn’t mean it but with everything I am going through + pregnancy hormones, I can’t help but ball my eyes out. I feel defeated. Like I just can’t win with anything...

I have a dr’s appointment tomorrow, so I will bring this up to her for sure. I’m not sure how she will go about it but I know that I cannot be put on bed rest. I don’t even have the help for that, I live with my husband 2 1/2 hours away from any of my family and my husband has to work. Idk what to do with myself anymore. This whole pregnancy has been so mean to me form the very start of it.