Okay I’m embarrassed 😭

Ja

I had been having this bad pain on my vaginal lips. Like near the top, it had been hurting and irritated and itching but I had hair there so I couldn’t tell. I ended up shaving the hair down and I felt it and it was swollen. I had my husband look he said it like swollen like they were open.

This my first time, is it normal? And should I tell my ob? I’m 37w3d