So my mom claims me and my bf are toxic and abuse each other LOL.

We really don’t though, we play wrestle and hit each other all the time. I’ve put him in many choke holes AS A JOKE but I guess not to other people lolll. We do playful stuff like slap each other in the face (not hard jeez) and push each other around. We have a really close bond together and that’s just how it is. He is very sweet and cuddly on the other hand. And when so do “slap” each other on the face it isn’t a full ass slap either 🙄 Idk. It’s just how our relationship is and i wouldn’t want it any other way, but I guess it’s an issue ?