Hi everyone

I’m 34 weeks and 4 days today and my grandmother passed away. The funeral is held for next week when I will be 35 weeks and 3 days.

My family are telling me I can’t attend the funeral because it’s bad luck and something will happen to the baby. I’m really feeling the guilt trip as I want to attend to say goodbye to her but now I’m feeling guilty - like what if something does happen?

The pregnancy has been perfect so far, all check ups are good and the baby is measuring a healthy size and is extremely active.

I’m not normally superstitious but of course when it comes to my unborn baby I am afraid.

Could I get some advice from you ladies? What would you do?