I denied him sex and his penis swelled

My post had some of y’all so mad last night at my boyfriend because he wouldn’t use a cream for a yeast infection.

I just got over one so bad that I was physically ill because the infection was so severe. I saw a doctor, and it took 3 doses of the oral antifungal.

I noticed that my boyfriends penis had a rash on it and i told him “i gave you a yeast infection so now you have to treat it or we’ll just pass it back and forth.” so I went and got him jock it cream.

He wouldn’t put it on because “my dick doesn’t even hurt.” And I straight up said “I just went through hell to get rid of this yeast infection. All you have to do is put a cream on a few times a day. I had to go to a whole ass doctor and have my vagina inspected. I had to insert medicine that burned and then take pills. ALL YOU NEED IS THE CREAM.” He put it on once because I talked him into it and I asked if it hurt and he said no. I noticed he wasn’t using it.

I kept on like, I am not going through sitting on an ice pack and throwing up because my body is fighting an infection in my vagina. I’m not doing that again. So I made it clear that I was withholding sex until he treated his yeast infection.

All of you said yeah, don’t have sex with him and LET him start hurting because he won’t treat it and maybe he’ll learn.”

He tried to sleep with me last night and I was like uh NO. I am just now able to sleep in peace without my vagina burning violently. Dont put that thing near me.

So he goes to jack off and his dick SWELLS and he starts freaking out, like. “Please help. Please help.”

Yall... it was BAD like it even freaked me out. But I knew all too damn well that swelling was apart of the yeast infection so I had him wash his penis with water and then I put the cream on it and wrapped it with a cool wrap. This man said “oohhhhweeee” like yeah dude I’ve been trying to tell you for days that if you don’t treat this shit it’s going to rage like hell fire.

In the end, the swelling went down. Hes scared to touch his penis and he is applying the cream 3 times a day. His penis already looks so much better after using it just a few times.

I’m telling you men really just have to learn the hard way sometimes. He ALSO said before hand “I’m not having a doctor look at my dick.”

And last night he was like “I NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR.” So if it doesn’t go away he’ll see a doctor now because he sees it’s an actual issue. Fuck sake.

Edited: I am glad to say that I am so proud I stood my ground (lol) because all of my yeast infection symptoms are gone. I feel so much better, everything is back to normal down there and my boyfriend is still treating his yeast infection and it’s looking a lot better.

I WANT to have sex with him. I’ve never wanted someone so bad.

But I also want us both to have.. healthy parts to do it. I cannot wait until we are both in the clear. I went through so much hell with that infection, that I had him agree that we both see a doctor before we have sex to make sure the infection is 100% gone for both of us.

I’d rather chop off my toes than have another yeast infection. To healthy genitals! 🥂