So, let me preface this by saying I want my mom to move forward. I want her to be happy. This is, in absolutely no way, me wanting to stop her from being happy.

My father passed away in April, almost a year ago. He was very sick for several years. We knew that he was dying, and so we were all prepared, but it’s still been difficult.

My mom has met someone recently. They’re not dating, but they like each other.

I told her to go for it, and she showed me pictures of him and his family.

She’s 59, and I know life shouldn’t stop for her just because my dad isn’t here anymore.

But, I’m struggling with the idea. My mind immediately jumped to things like... what if they get married? What would my kids call him? I feel like it would be so awkward if they do start dating again.

I want her to be happy. But, personally, I am still so deep in grief over my dad’s passing, that the idea just feels weird.

If you have a parent who started dating again after a loss, please offer advice on how you were able to get used to the idea of your parent dating again.

Thank you. ❤️