I’ve been with my husband for 8 years. I’m pregnant with our third child. He loves to receive expensive gifts on holidays and birthdays. I like thoughtful gifts, even a simple heartfelt card I love and he knows this. When it comes to flowers he knows I love them but prefer to be gifted a plant bc that way I can keep it and don’t have to throw it out. For his ex he used to go all out for her on all special occasions, jewelry vacations, expensive bags etc. He’s never really done anything for me in all the years we’ve been together and the little things he does do I’m always appreciative of. I got him very expensive gifts this year for Valentine’s and gave them to him the night before. He loved them. He came home from work yesterday empty handed and told me he was going to get me flowers but I don’t appreciate them so he decided not to get me anything at all. Like nothing. And him saying that to me hurt. I didn’t say anything to him bc I’ve been very emotional this pregnancy and don’t know if it’s bc of my hormones. But damn it I would have liked to have gotten a flower or something to show me he cares. I’m really feeling unloved. So today I told myself I’d go out and get myself flowers but don’t know if that’s going to cause a bigger problem when he comes home and sees them. Or should I put my big girl pants on and just tell him I’m upset. Thoughts?

Oh he also asked me for a blow job last night (can’t have sex bc of pregnancy complications and I’m on pelvic test) I told him yes and then pretended to fall asleep with my kids.