12 weeks and no heart beat any more.. going to d&c

Tay • 👩🏼‍🤝‍👨🏻👼🏻🌈🤰🏼

I just lost my baby practically over night. I had a scan on thrusday and with my new OB (my insurance changed) everything looked fine strong heart beat.. and I went in today to my previous OB to get my blood test and to get my paper work as well for my new docotor. They checked me today with the doppler and didn't hear a heart beat... when I just heard one on Thursday. And then they did an ultrasound and nothing. I can stop crying the baby measured like it grew until this morning or last night and has no heart beat all of the sudden. My heart is broken and I can't stop crying. I wasn't ever supposed to have an ultrasound today I don't know what happened. They said I need a D&C. I don't know what to expect I was crying to much to understand what is going on. All I could hear was I was too far along it let it happen naturally since it was now almost the second trimester. Any advice please on how to get though this.

*updated* the second opinion showed he indeed just had to have passed that morning or late in the night before because of his his growth😭💔 I'm spending my last day with him before the D&C tomorrow. My husband still couldn't make it back In time so me and our little guy, weather he has a his heart beat or not will spend the day doing things I wished to do with him one day, like reading his baby books aloud, going on a walk at the park near( maybe he would have been scared of ducks like his dad), and eating all of the food he has made my body crave over this pregnancy. I can't think of a any other way to enjoy our last moment together.. my heart is definitely broken..