How to bond with a teenager

I've been really wanting to bond with my teens but they seem to just want me to leave them alone. My daughter(17) mainly just wants to hang out with friends and her boyfriend and my son(14) mainly wants to play video games. I tried making their interests my interests and that didn't work. My son has been really into this game Among us and I downloaded it and asked of we could play together and he just gave me a look and said "No". I know they are getting older and spending time with your mom is not as fun, but I'm hoping there is some way to bond with them.