My partner and I have been together for 3 years and, as crazy as it sounds now, we’ve never used protection. I’m now pregnant and I was telling him how I thought it was wild of us to not use protection before. He told me that he wasn’t too worried about it, that I was the only person he never used protection with and finished inside since the beginning because he knew he would be okay if I got pregnant. I thought it was sweet and we moved on. Then later on he backpedals and tells me that he didn’t use protection except pullout with his ex’s either but that he didn’t cum inside of them. He said the closest was that he almost had an “oops” with one of them but didn’t want to finish in them. Then slipped up tonight and told me that he actually was intentionally finishing inside one of the other girls.

Part of me thinks I shouldn’t be bothered because it’s his past. But another part of me is upset because he made me feel like I was special because of those things but has since changed the story multiple times. I feel like had he not mentioned it on his own and tried to make it sound like I was “the only one” since the beginning I wouldn’t be bothered by this.