I really need help and advice ladies. (Side note: Were working getting enough money to get marriage counseling).

Anyway, so, the last couple of months, my husband has been very distant from me. He works a full time job(as do I), and when he comes home, he plays his video games AS SOON AS HE GETS HOME. He’s usually off Tuesday, Wednesday, and Sundays. On his days off, again, he plays his games and doesn’t watch or pick up after our children. We have 3 kids age 3 and under. I’m usually the one, if I’m home, picking up after the kids, playing with them, giving them baths, feeding them, and putting them to bed. Mind you, I work 50-60 hours a week, and actually a lot more than he does. Yet, I do everything. So, I tried to talk to my husband, and he completely shut me down, saying that I was overreacting and I nag him all the time about doing stuff around the house or TAKING CARE OF HIS CHILDREN. He told me that I am dramatic and that I need to stop telling him to help around the house because I’m just being lazy. Tonight, I broke down in my room alone because I never get to spend time with him. He rolled his eyes when I asked him to spend time with me and walked in the other room and I heard him talking to his friends on the game saying, “My wife is trippin, y’all, I’m sorry.” Then he proceeds to laugh and talk more crap. I’m lost on what to do. I deserve more because I am a good wife and good mom. This seems like some narcissistic behavior, and I’m not 100% sure how to deal with it. I feel so alone and unwanted.