Advice plz?! (Rant too kinda)
Hi all... so my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now... and we’ve just gotten out of the honey moon phase... I think I might be having trouble adjusting?
Like he doesn’t hug me or kiss me as much as he did when we started dating... and I understand that’s normal but we have barely hugged and haven’t kissed in a little over a month now? Idk if I’m over thinking it all but idk... I just feel like he thinks imma jump his bones or something because I started feeling the “distance”, we were hearing our relationship up a bit but kinda cooled it off a little bit quickly... so now he knows I’m ready to have sex and he wants to wait until we graduate... which I’m fine with! I’m not gonna pressure him or anything but I feel like whenever I hug him he pulls away like he thinks I’m gonna do something to him? Idk... maybe I’m overthinking it...
I think maybe I might be overthinking it because of my last relationship when I the guy I was dating and I started to Heating up our relationship (I realise now that he kinda pressured me) and he left me and was using me... and as much as I know the guy I’m with isn’t doing that it still worries me... like I’ve sorta talked to him about the distance I’ve been feeling and he has reassured me and lately I’ve been feeling better about it but I’m still having trouble trying to move past my anxieties... so I guess I’m posting on here for an outside perspective? What do y’all think?
Let's Glow!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.