I am 5 days post partum with my 3rd child. I feel like I'm dying. My emotions are fine but my 2 older kids seem to be all over the place. I know they want attention since baby is new and requiring all my attention but I am starting to feel a bit overwhelmed. My 3 year old is so all over the place. She is in the not listening phase and I find myself getting so frustrated and yelling so much. My husband mentioned I need to try calming down that I'm yelling too much and I feel horrible.

How do you guys cope? How do I really develop more patience? I need any kind of advice.