so I’m having a birthday party on my birthday (20th feb.) Im turning 14 (most of my friends are already 14 turning 15) and I’m so excited. It’s going to be the first bday party I’ve had in 3 years. It’s also from 4-9 pm. Although I’m excited some things are going wrong..

My friend was talking about bringing drugs and alcohol to my party in a drink bottle. I shut it down straight away. Girl we are 14!!! WE SHOULD NOT BE DOING THIS STUFF. im stressing because I feel like she will despite me telling her NO. I told her if she does I will kick her out of my house and I don’t care if she hates me for it. The only time I will ever drink is at the age of 18 (I live in Australia) or with my parents supervision.

also, my bestfriend keeps getting mad at me for no reason. She keeps saying it’s not fair that she didn’t plan my party with me, and when I went shopping to her my birthday dress ewi th her, she took the EXACT SAME one I wanted because she wanted to be ‘matching.’ Like it’s cute and all but it’s my birthday, and I don’t want to sound spilt or anything but I kinda wanna stand out a little. She also got mad at me because I said no one is allowed to stay after the party for a sleepover (which isn’t true, I just didn’t want her to stay because I want to spend the rest of the night with my family.) im just stressing and she doesn’t get that no matter how many times I try to tell her.

Last but not least, my friends from my high school are coming, as well as my primary school best friends who I’m so close with till this day. But two of my high school friends wants to throw a tantrum and fight with my childhood friends for no reason. They then told me that the only reason they wanna go is to ‘start shit with them.’ They are SO fake, the only reason I invited them was because I didn’t want to start shit at school. Today I also heard them talking about me but to my face they act so sweet.

I can’t handle the pressure anymore. I just wanted this day to be fun. Everyone seems so fake around me (besides my primary friends and one of my high school friends who are so sweet.) I don’t know what to do. And I know I’m gonna a lot of people saying that I shouldn’t of invited them, and I know, I shouldn’t have, but what is done is done, so if you could give me advice on what to do for the big day 😩🥺