So for starters we live in Kansas so the weather has been extremely cold here. School was canceled Monday and Tuesday and she went Wednesday. My fiancé works in the oil field and they closed all the rigs on Friday and he’s been home since. He was supposed to go to work Wednesday as well but his grandma hasn’t been in the best health and she ended up in the hospital so he wanted to go see her. No biggy his boss told him to take the day and not to worry he’d still get paid. Great. So with all the Covid crap she’s only allowed one visitor a day. It has to be that same person all day they can leave and come back but only them. So he was going after I got off work at noon. I assumed he was going to take his truck so I could pick our daughter up from school. (We have 2 other Non school aged kids at home & his truck only seats 2) but it turns out he was planning on taking the suv. I asked him if he could be back to pick up our daughter so she didn’t have to walk in the cold. He got mad and said he wasn’t going to go cuz it was pointless to only see her for an hour and turn back around it was a 45 minute drive both ways. I told him then why are you not taking your truck so you can come home when ever. He said his truck is crap and hogs gas (side note, I tried to sell the ruck for a car and he threw a fit) so we got into an argument and he said I don’t care about his grandma and she’s on a downward hill and it would be fault if he didn’t see her and she dies and so on so I said what ever just go. So he left in the suv. It was time for school to be out and it was snowing. I felt like such a horrible mama that my baby had to walk home. I had her a snack and some hot chocolate ready when she walked through the door. I texted him and said great it snowing and colder and she has to walk. I got no response. So after she warmed up we FaceTimed him so the kids can see her. She was so excited to see them as we haven’t seen her in a long time due to Covid. Talking on the phone and FaceTime are so different. She doesn’t do anything more than talk so she was in aw that she actually saw them. If I wouldn’t have called he would have never either. So I texted him that church was at 530 for Ash Wednesday he said okay he was getting ready to leave at 4 so plenty of time to get home. But he then texted me at 445 asking what time church was cuz he still hadn’t left yet so walking to church it was going to be for us. Needless to say I was mad. Church is my daughter’s favorite thing. We got into it at home when we were done with church. I was mad that we were left with no vehicle that he has a truck only he can drive as I don’t drive stick. He also stopped on the way home to get food knowing dinner was ready at home and then he lied about it! Like why? Over something so little! Come on! So I voiced why I was mad and it all got turned into me not caring about his grandma. Then at dinner he did sit with us he said his grandma was giving us her dinning room table. I told him but we have one. A nice one with 6 chairs. He said it was crap and came with the house. I told him it came with the house because I wanted it! So he got mad again and said I didn’t want anything of his grandmas cuz I don’t care about her and his family is crap to me.... what am I supposed to do with another dinning room table that kind you only has 4 chairs and we are a family of 5.

Was I being insensitive and selfish like he says I was?

Or is he way overreacting