So I’m a ftm and will be staying home with the baby while my husband works. We are currently living with my in laws because of getting land cleared and building. We Will still be with them when the baby comes. We have only been married since October and are due May, my mother in law already talks about how MY baby will never be put down and will always be held and my father in law has mad comments about how we can’t go anywhere for a week because the baby needs to be around him and he needs us to keep the door open so he can check on her. ( yes I do feel as tho sometimes he jokes and says things ina joking manner but I feel like this is getting out of hand)

My mother in law also thinks that she is going to be around OUR baby 24/7 because she doesn’t work and has talked about how she’s going to take the baby and do all these things and she’s constantly buying the baby stuff already which we greatly appreciate.

My husband has said to her that she’s not going to get the baby as much as she thinks she is but I talk about how I do not want to co-sleep in my bed but a bassinet is fine and my father in law has said the baby can just sleep with him. I feel like it’s not my place to say anything to them so I keep my mouth shut but I want my own space when I’m raising my daughter and don’t want to be bothered when I’m breastfeeding, or she is sleeping. She will be in a crib if she’s asleep of at least in the bassinet. But I don’t know how to go about this?