So yesterday was the anniversary of when my fiancé and I got engaged, so he asked if I would want to do something this weekend. Well, literally the only thing we ever do is go out to eat and we haven’t even done that because of covid. (But we also work opposite schedules and he plays a lot of video games 🙄 so even though we’re home every night, we don’t spend any time together)

Well I asked him if he would want to get breakfast at ihop tomorrow because I don’t work until 4. He said sure. And immediately says “hey Sean” (he’s on his video game and talking to his friend) “do you and shauna want to come to ihop tomorrow?” Like.......? He knows I’ve been trying to get him to spend more time with me, we talked about going out for our anniversary... he didn’t even ask me how I felt about it before inviting them. And if he had asked, I would’ve said I didn’t want them to come. I haven’t said anything because he’s still on his game and he’s impossible to talk to when he’s only paying half attention. Am I wrong for being upset and wanting to say something? I’m just hurt more than anything honestly.

I know it sounds so stupidly small, but if I could get across how little time we spend together and how often I try to get him to hangout with me, without making this post even longer, I would. Like, it’s midnight and he’s been on his game since he got home from work at like 6 pm. I got home from work at 10:30pm. He’ll play until probably 12:30 or 1 and then he’ll get off and go straight to bed. This is every single night. Weekends are the only time we get together and that’s IF I only work a normal shift and not a double. I’m also 38 weeks pregnant and my doctor told me to expect a hormone shift