I have been with my husband for 12 years and we have a 2 year old son and a baby due in 7weeks, he has never been diagnosed but he definitely has mental health problems even his own family say it. One minute he is fine next he will flip out over the stupidest thing and start smashing the house up and sometimes hitting and kicking me...... tonight I asked him not to give our son grated cheese on my new rug and to give it to him in his high chair this resulted him smashing nearly everything in the kitchen including the fridge....... I just picked my baby up and walked upstairs (my son was oblivious thankgod) and after my husband was satisfied he had caused the damage he then calmed down and started cleaning it up...... i am sick to death of this and it seems the older he gets the worse his becoming yes they are far and fewer between but so much more worse and I can’t have my son or my nearly to be daughter around this toxic environment...... he loves our son and would never harm him I’m sure of that but he will let him see his aggression towards me...... my full family immigrated to Australia last year and all 5 of my best friends moved to Dubai America and Canada too....... I have no one to turn too and I mean no one..... I was always a home body and only really hung out with those 5 girls...... I can’t get into Australia as I don’t have any qualifications and my husband hadn’t let me work in years as he earns so much so I don’t have any money he just gives me enough to pay for food and bills with not much left over and now I can see as clear as day that’s to control me.... his family live over 10 hours away and they have made it quite clear in the past they know his nuts but I’m lucky to have him and that they would always stand by him so I couldn’t turn to them please can someone advise me on what I can do the woman refuge only let y stay for a week or 2 until u can sort someone to stay with but I have no one to call no one to come for me no where to go and no money