I have this friend and we’re supposed to be best friends but lately I feel I’m outgrowing our friendship. Anytime I tell her anything at all she lectures me like she’s my parent. Anytime I make any type of decision she tells me how much she “truly” hates it because she wants the best for me. It’s not even just one thing here or there it’s literally every single thing. I moved into my own home and we went shopping for decor and I was going to pay and she put her card in before I could and paid for it all. ($250) Afterwards when I told her she didn’t have to do that she said “it’s fine I know you’re struggling you don’t have to pretend”. I’m not struggling even a little bit so idk why she’d say that. A couple days later she randomly called me and said “I want to help you lose weight because I know you don’t feel good about yourself and I just truly want to help you” I’ve never mentioned losing weight or not feeling good about myself. Last night was the last straw for me. She was going out with co workers to celebrate her getting a new job and asked if I wanted to come and I said I didn’t want to go because it was so late (the place was only open for one more hour) and she went off on me saying what kind of friend am I and who do I think I am and I’m not supportive.. I don’t appreciate a “friend” talking to me like this. Am I overreacting?

She cancels on me all the time. I also just got a new job and we were supposed to celebrate but she cancelled and made other plans.